By Joe Holleman
St. Louis Post-Dispatch
03/06/2004
Let us not dwell on that Shakespearean question "What's in a name?"
Instead, let's look at what is between names.
There are thousands,
probably even millions, who don't know that March 7 is "Middle Name
Pride Day."
Well, now you do.
Often, the middle name
is the place where the rich and not-so-rich tuck in a family surname.
And more and more frequently, women are taking their maiden name for that
center spot after they marry.
But mostly we're talking
about the average, all-American middle name - the place where the out-of-fashion
names of beloved great-uncles and favorite aunts go to hide, turning up
only as an initial on some official document.
We're talking about
names already on the birth certificate before the bearer had a chance
to squawk about it.
In the scheme of Western
civilization, middle names are relatively new, according to Rhonda R.
McClure, author of numerous genealogy books, including "The Complete
Idiot's Guide to Online Genealogy." According to McClure, we can
thank German immigrants in the early 1800s.
"They were in the
habit of giving their children two names at baptism. The first name was
a spiritual name, often a favorite saint's name; and the second one, which
would later be known as the middle name, was the secular name," McClure
said.
"The secular name,
or 'call name,' was the one by which the child was known and the name
used in legal records. It was not uncommon for the spiritual name to be
the same for all the children of the same sex within the family,"
she said.
By the 1840s, giving
children a middle name became widespread. By World War I, nearly everyone
in America had a middle name.
Norah Burch, who hosts
the Web site www.namenerds.com, said there is a substantial difference
in how the names are picked for boys and girls.
"Girls' middle
names are very predictable," she said, adding that she did an informal
study of birth announcements in 1997 in and around Ithaca, N.Y.
"The vast majority
of girls had Ann or Marie as a middle name, with Lynn in third place,"
she said. "And those three names didn't even show up in the top 10
of the most popular girls' first names. Girls seem to get middle names
because they sound good, because it has a good rhythm.
"With boys, it's
different," Burch added. "Michael, John and James were the most
popular middle names, but they were also in the top 10 of popular first
names," she said.
Burch has seen a recent
change in girls' middle names. "Rose and Grace, which are like old/new
names, are becoming quite popular," she said.
Burch, an administrator
at Harvard University, said she has a special fondness for middle names.
"My first name
is Amy. But there were five girls other than me named Amy in my junior
high class. And I wasn't even the only Amy B., so I was known as 'short
Amy B.' That's when I decided to go with my middle name."
Robin Smith, TV anchor
and reporter at KMOV (Channel 4), uses her middle name professionally.
(She does not reveal her first name to protect herself from identity theft,
she said.)
"I've been called
Robin my whole life," said Smith. She added that the name came from
her mother's affection for the work of A.A. Milne, whose most famous character
(this side of Winnie the Pooh) is Christopher Robin.
"My brother is
five years older and his name is Christopher. Five years later, I came
along and got Robin as a middle name."
Smith said she had some
hesitation about using Robin when she was starting her career. "I
was afraid that maybe it would sound too young as I got older, but it
still has a very useful and youthful feel to it," she said.
St. Clair County Board
Chairman John Baricevic also uses his middle name. His full name - as
is the names of his father and his son - is Charles John Baricevic. His
father goes by Charles, and his son is called C.J., chairman Baricevic
said.
These days, Stacy Christiansen,
and her husband, Steve, are thinking a lot about middle names. They have
a 6-year-old daughter, Kyra, and Stacy is expecting in July.
"Both Steve and
I are very proud of our middle names, so we take it seriously," said
Christiansen, of Manchester.
"Deane is my father's
middle name, and the name he goes by. So we gave that middle name to Kyra.
If the new baby is a boy, there is a tradition in my husband's family
to give male children the name of Clarke. His middle name is Clarke,"
she said.
Christiansen said she
doesn't want to give any of her children long names. "Christiansen
is long enough," she said.
She also wishes her
parents would've called her by her middle name. "My middle name is
Jo, after the main character in 'Little Women.' I love that name, but
my mom and dad always called me Stacy."
When it comes to middle
names, few are as unique as 13-year-old Glen Ozenkoski's of Spanish Lake.
It's Egbar.
"It was totally
unplanned, the pregnancy," said Egbar's father, also Glen Ozenkoski.
He and his wife, Linda, own OZ Line-a-Bed, a truck accessory company in
north St. Louis County.
"Linda was all
worried about (the pregnancy) working out, and how it was going to change
our lives and our plans. So every day I would tell her 'Everything's Gonna
Be All Right.'
"So when it came
time to give him a middle name," the elder Ozenkoski pointed to the
first letters of his daily refrain and explained, "we chose Egbar."
Robert Goodrich of the
Post-Dispatch staff provided information for this article.
Reporter Joe Holleman
E-mail: jholleman@post-dispatch.com
Phone: 314-340-8254
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